Yesterday I went to get my paintings at the museum. While I was there an elderly couple (80s and beyond), their grown kids and teenage grandkids were there looking at exhibits. The woman had grown up in Del Norte and remembered some of the people — doctors and dentists — whose old time tools are part of an exhibit. The tree had been decorated with old postcards, and one of them had been written by the old lady’s father. K, the woman in charge yesterday, asked the old woman if she’d like to take a photo of it. I think I would have given it to her. It’s just paper.
I thought about the purpose of a museum, especially a small local museum. In one more generation, the old things in there aren’t gong to evoke much of a response in people except as they might remember going there on an elementary school field trip. I wonder how they will see the ephemera, like the Christmas postcards? I asked myself, “Where do our memories actually lie and what do they mean?” Christmas is a nostalgic time.
I didn’t put up a Christmas tree because, honestly, why? BUT…when I pulled out the stained glass box that is a candle holder I found some Christmas ornaments inside it. Well, to cut to the chase, I “decorated.” In front of me right now is my “tree.” It’s a little museum to Christmas past, memories. The ornaments seemed to say, “For the love of god do SOMETHING with us!” I put them all on my tuner in front of me here on my table. The angel, in particular, with her chrome, foil, plastic, pipe-cleaner little self, her wooden ball head with its sweet expression that so enchanted a little girl that her dad bought it for her.
The real museum is probably in our minds, the stories behind the objects, artifacts, ephemera, like the elderly woman in the museum seeing her dad’s handwriting on the back of a postcard from the 1920s. I would have given it to her. “Here. Merry Christmas.” Yep. I would’ve done that.
The Museum

I’m with you, I would have given it to her!
Right? She might’ve said no. But seriously…
I agree with giving it to her. Geez…
no reason not to give it to her, it would bring her such joy. I kind of feel like museums are living and fluid things, with things and displays coming and going as needed – so interesting what our minds choose to remember and what it chooses to let go.
I think our minds are in on our systemic survival strategy. “This is a good thing. Keep it. Enjoy it once a year.” Something like that.
I can understand that K. might not have had the authority to give away part of the display. Still it seems silly not to have gotten her name and address so that they could have decided to send it to her… The little angel is adorable! I have a cornhusk angel that son#2 made in school that has adorned the tree for the last 25 years at least!
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